There's an old, beautiful poem that says people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Even if you've never heard of it before, you can probably guess that the poem is about appreciating the people that come into our lives as well as the life lessons they help us learn. The trick is to figure out which category the people in our lives fit into. Not an easy task, I must admit, but one well worth the conscious effort as you'll start to see things in your life in a totally different way. You'll start to make conscious choices about the people you choose to bring into your life as well. Wow, right? Deep stuff. Basically, we're talking about not being one of the walking dead ... in real life.
In the movie A Walk to Remember, teenage rebel Landon Carter (Shane West) is forced to choose between expulsion and helping out other students and participating in the school play after being exposed for his involvement in a prank that led to the injury of another student and property damage on school grounds. Although he knew quiet Jamie Sullivan (Mandy Moore) since kindergarten, they pretty much hung out with different crowds. It was during his punishment/atonement for his crimes, however, that Landon finally became officially acquainted with his old classmate. Jamie helping Landon out with his role in the play sparked a new connection, which was initially plagued with a lot of back-and-forth between the two, but then turned into friendship and so much more. The two unlikely friends, the rebel and the minister's daughter, fell in love and began to change each other for the better. Things became really serious when Jamie finally confessed to Landon that she was dying from leukemia and didn't have much longer to live. By then the two were spending as much time together as they possibly could, making the most of the time Jamie had left, which Landon made sure to try and fulfill as many of Jamie's wishes as possible including getting married. When Jamie died at the end of the summer, she did so having experienced a lasting and meaningful love, one that Landon would never forget either. In the end, Landon was a changed person. He even went to college and had plans to attend medical school. And even though saying goodbye to the love of his life felt premature, with Jamie being so young and all, Landon did so and was able to go on with strength because of the beautiful memory of the love he experienced that summer with Jamie.
As sweet as A Walk to Remember is to experience, it's also a great reminder to us all that sometimes people come into our lives for just a reason or a season and not a lifetime. Yes, like Landon in the movie, we sometimes have to say goodbye sooner than we expect or maybe we don't realize that someone is in our lives for just a reason or a season, which can be tough, but facing that reality is the only thing left to do. So, let us all embrace the fact that saying goodbye is tough, but that sometimes we just have to remember that it's not necessarily a bad thing. It's not bad because no matter why or how long someone is in our lives, we are better for having known them. It's all about evolving, right? Onward and upward.